Strange Musings....

Lately, we've been so blessed as a family. Almost ridiculously so. While back in the States for the birth of our son, we were allowed to stay rent-free in a house, and borrow a car for free. When we had to give the car back, we were given another car.
We are blessed to have the support of churches and individuals who give so generously for us to be here-- we have a good vehicle to drive, wonderful friends here and in the US, three great kids... God has been so good to us.
So, it makes me wonder. What about those that God isn't blessing? Our friends who struggle financially, while we aren't. Family members dealing with serious illnesses or divorce, while we are healthy and happily married.
Why is it that God chooses to bless some (us at the moment), and not others, so it seems? Why are some Christians struggling with such hard things, and others aren't?
I realize that I am a bit odd to be thinking of this instead of just being glad of all the blessings. Trust me, I am very thankful of the blessings. We have also struggled with some very hard times: struggling with making ends meet, difficulties during my pregnancy and Jonathan's foot.
I am just rambling a bit, I guess. And feeling a tiny bit guilty that we are having an easy time of it right now while those we love aren't.
I must remember the verse Philippians 4:12-13:

I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do everything through him who gives me strength.